Poor Tami had to wait forever it seems for her interview. I was on vacation, then had surgery so I was laid up and couldn’t write or type! So here we are…meet Tami!
Name: Tami Ducceschi
Age: 36, Birthday April 22
Hometown: Virginia Beach VA
Favorite WHBC Beer: Bell Ringer – it removes all motivation to be productive for the rest of the day!
Favorite WHBC Food: Crab cakes
Education: VA Wesleyan and TCC
WHBC: Your hometown is Virginia Beach – how did you get to be out here?
T: My husband and I have a blended family; 4 boys between us. We needed a bigger house to raise our family in. So we started looking around and decided to drive out here one day. And we kept driving, and driving, and driving. Haha. It felt like we wouldn’t stop. But we found a home in Windsor in 2012 and love it. I prefer being here in the country to the beach.
WHBC: I’m sorry. You just said 4 boys. They must keep you on your toes!
T: They do. They’re 8, 13, 14, and 15. It could be worse; they could all be girls haha!! They are all really go kids. They are all so different; they do their own things so they don’t fight much. I’m very lucky. They all know what is expected of them. My husband and I run a pretty tight ship. The boys know the rules and follow them. Most of the time.
WHBC: What do you like to do as a family?
T: Camping and traveling. We’ve been to Pocahontas, Cherrystone, North Landing, Kiptopeke, Lake Gaston. We just got a boat and finished out boater safety course, so we are looking forward to wake boarding, fishing, and crabbing.
WHBC: What’s been your favorite family trip?
T: I would say when we went to Disney. They were all little and could enjoy it. We went to Massanutten also. I had tried skiing before and swore I’d never do it again, but we took a lesson there and I tried again and found out I really like it! Snowboarding not so much.
T: I am very family oriented, and family doesn’t always mean blood. We are very fortunate to have a couple of families we camp with who we are very close to; we have a solid friend group. I like my house to be the place where we have bonfires and everyone hangs out and comes together.
WHBC: Very cool! Do you have family nearby?
T: My mom and grandparents used to live in Virginia Beach, but moved out here near us. After my mom passed last year, I started being the one to take care of my grandparents. They’ve since moved to Hampton and I don’t see them often. My great aunt still lives at the beach, and I take care of her making sure she has what she needs. I’m the only family she has left.
WHBC: Wow what a full plate you’ve got! When are able to slow down and relax a bit, what do you like to do?
T: I do genealogy. Once I start doing that, it’s hard to stop. I just keep making connection after connection and all of a sudden, the day has gone by. My dad told me at one time we were related to Stonewall Jackson so I’m trying to figure that out. I think I’ve got much of his side of the family traced back to the 1400’s. I also like to work around the house – paint, yardwork, planting, different home projects.
WHBC: Your downtime seems like it keeps you busy too! So how long have you been working here?
T: Since the very beginning. I started as a server, then moved on to bartending, then managing.
WHBC: What position do you like working the best?
T: Bartending I think. I get to spend more time with the customers and can stand and talk to people. I don’t have to leave their table and come back at all. I like having that personal time with them because I like to laugh and joke with people. And the money is good too!
WHBC: Do you have a favorite regular customer?
T: I’m sure I’m going to leave people out. If I had time to think I could give you a whole list. Ed, 3 o’clock Bob, Larry, Ed & Cindy, Mark, Megan & Scott, Tom. It’s funny though because Bob is becoming more of 2:30 Bob. Later in the week, we have a group that comes in around 3 and takes up the bench in the bar. They get loud sometimes and I don’t think Bob cares for it. I like seeing his facial expressions when he reacts to what they’re doing behind him. He likes to just sit and have quiet conversation on his corner of the bar, so he’s coming earlier now!
WHBC: I’m sure he can be quite expressive! What’s the funniest or strangest thing that you’ve seen from behind the bar?
T: Well, the time one of Lee’s sons came in and called Preston “Daddy” was really funny. A lot of people get the two of them confused; they’re both tall and lanky with dark hair. The other day a guy by the name of Will came in for lunch. We were trying to figure out what he did for a living because he was dressed up in a black suit and tie. I had a long conversation with him – he was very pleasant and positive. It really made my day speaking with him. I never found out where he was from or anything. He tipped well and bought a girl at the bar a couple drinks then left. Anyway, I googled his name from his charge receipt and turns out he once played for the Seahawks and the Jaguars!
WHBC: Right on! That’s awesome you had such a great conversation with him and he never even mentioned it! So speaking about being famous, what was your childhood dream?
T: To be an actress. I was in plays all throughout school, but never did anything with it.
WHBC: Did you go to college?
T: Oh geez. Yes. Haha.I went to Virginia Wesleyan and studied all sorts of crazy stuff. I should have just started with the basics, but instead tried to figure out what I wanted to do and just ended up overwhelmed and quit. I should have had a plan. I thought I wanted to study psychology, but never pursued it. I went back later to TCC for basic ed stuff, then started working at a pharmacy until 2009. We moved out here and I became a stay at home mom and volunteered at the animal shelter. Which I’d like to do more of!
WHBC: Yeah, I guess having a plan going into school is probably a good thing. I can relate though! So now to the fun stuff. What’s your favorite TV show?
T: Oh gosh. Big Brother. I am absolutely addicted to that show. I guess frustrated if the DVR doesn’t record for some reason, so I set it up to record two hours after it’s supposed to end so I don’t miss it!
WHBC:Oh wow – I haven’t watched that show in forever! haha. Last question…and since I know you’ve already thought your answer out for this I will ask what superpower you would have if given the choice?
T:I would be a medium. Try not to make me sound crazy here, but I have these dreams sometimes. Premonitions. And I think if I was a medium I could really help give people peace after their loved ones have passed. What a wonderful thing that would be.
WHBC:You don’t sound crazy at all! That’s so interesting. Thanks for hanging out today!
Want to know what it’s like working with Tami? Read on…
Liz: “Tami is really easy going. She’s funny but knows when she can joke around and when she has to be serious.”
Pam: “She can’t count money haha. She always comes up with different amounts when she counts the drawer. Seriously, Tami is fun to work with, as everyone here is. Our customers really seem to like her.”
Kait: “Tami is such a pleasure to work with! She always has a beautiful smile on her face as she prepares to take on the day. She is very approachable and easy going!”
So basically, Tami rocks!